Look like the culture except where it contradicts scripture

This is an idea that has been on my mind for a while. As Christians, we tend to try to make ourselves look different from the world in every way. We want to be set apart from them, and that can be a good thing.

The problem comes when the way we are distinct isn't from the bible, but from the traditions of men. Some believers won't listen to any music that isn't branded as Christian. Some only interact with Christians, choosing to stay as far as possible from unbelievers. Some treat any consumption of alcohol as a sin. And not just for alcoholics.

This is what the Pharisees did. They made up rules to help keep them from breaking God's rules. They treated their rules like they came from God - all the while ignoring God's commands. Drinking a glass of wine isn't a sin; Christ drank wine, and He was no sinner. We are called to share the good news with unbelievers. We can't obey God and have nothing to do with them. All good gifts come from above, so we should be able to enjoy music as long as it isn't glorifying evil things.

When we make ourselves different from the world, the world will focus on what is different in us. When what is different is a bunch of stuff that we made up, we look like every other worldly group trying to be different. You aren't better than the world because you don't go on Facebook. But when the only thing about us that is different than the world is our faith, then the world will only look at our obedience to God. They will see our good deeds and praise our father in heaven. Be just like the world, except where the world contradicts the Word of God. When God prospers you despite persecution, they will only have one explanation for your success - for faith in God.