Purity

My daughter asked me to share this on the blog.

Introduction

As I sat pondering life’s mysteries, my mind wandered to a seemingly unrelated topic: hamburgers. Yes, those juicy, savory creations that have graced our plates in countless variations. But bear with me, for this isn’t just about food—it’s about choices, commitment, and the pursuit of purity.

The Burger Dilemma

Picture this: You’re hungry, craving a burger. You’ve sampled Whoppers, Big Macs, and Sourdough Jacks from various restaurants. Sometimes you settle for one when you really wanted another. But could you commit to a single burger for life? It’s a tough call. No matter how much you adore Whoppers, there’ll come a day when you yearn for a different flavor.

Now, imagine a different scenario. You’ve never tasted a burger before, and you’re asked to choose the one you’ll eat forever. That sole experience becomes your benchmark. Whenever hunger strikes, that burger is all you think about. It doesn’t matter if other burgers look or taste better; your knowledge is limited to the one you’ve chosen.

Translating to Relationships

Curiously, this burger dilemma mirrors our approach to sexual partners. Most people “try out” different partners, eventually settling down with one. But they carry memories—the ghosts of past lovers—comparing and contrasting them in their minds. When difficulties arise, some may even revisit their old ways.

But what if we waited? What if we committed to one person before intimacy? In that case, our sexual experience would be solely with that person. When we think of intimacy, their face would be the only one that comes to mind. No other options. This, I believe, aligns with God’s intention for us.

God’s Design

God, in His wisdom, designed us for purity. Waiting until commitment ensures that our sexual experiences are exclusively shared with our chosen partner. It’s like savoring that one perfect burger—no distractions, no comparisons. Just the richness of a single connection.

And yes, God can redeem us even if we’ve strayed. He wipes our slate clean, granting purity in godly relationships. But maintaining that purity requires effort. It’s like restoring a tarnished silver spoon—it gleams anew, but we must guard it diligently.

Conclusion

So, whether it’s burgers or relationships, let’s choose wisely. Commitment brings depth, and purity is worth the effort. As we savor life’s moments, may we remember that sometimes, less really is more.